Okay, let’s get real here. Working from home? Being your own boss? Being there for your kids? Sounds like a dream, right? But the truth about freelance writing as a parent? It’s often a messy circus.
I get it. I used to teach preschool. Now, I’m a writer. I’ve been in the trenches. Naps, snacks, and the constant tug-of-war between work and family.
But listen: it is possible. Not perfect. But possible. You can build a great freelance writing career and still be an awesome parent.
Freelance Writing: The Dream vs. Reality
The big draw? Freedom. No more awful commutes. No missing your kid’s play. You’re in charge…sort of.
But that freedom comes at a cost. Think irregular paychecks. Nonstop client hunting. And the guilt. Should I be working? Or playing? It’s all part of the deal.
Time Management: The Real Magic
This is where things get real. Forget finding more hours. It’s about making the most of what you’ve got.
Strict schedules? They often fail, especially with little ones. Instead, try “time blocks.”
- Maybe two hours writing in the morning. Kids are busy.
- Then another hour at night. After bedtime.
- Or, if you have a partner, take turns. “On duty” and “off duty.”
Here are some ideas:
- Naptime hustle. Nap times are gold. Treat them like deadlines.
- Early bird. Wake up before the kids. Get some writing done. Brutal? Yes. Worth it? Absolutely.
- Batch it up. Certain days for certain tasks. Pitching. Writing. Invoicing.
- Just say “no.” Overcommitting leads to burnout. Protect your time.
Seriously, saying no is a superpower. I used to hate turning down work. Now? It’s part of my self-care. Plus, I get to focus on the projects I love.
Client Communication: Be Clear
Clear communication is key, especially with kids in the mix. Be honest about your availability. Mention potential delays.
Don’t be afraid to say you’re a parent. Most clients get it. Some will even appreciate the honesty.
- Set boundaries. Working hours? Tell your clients.
- Use tools. Trello or Asana can help you stay organized. And keep clients in the loop.
- Don’t overpromise. Better to under-promise and over-deliver.
- Be responsive. Answer emails within 24 hours. Even if it’s just a quick “Got it!”
Work-Life Balance: Does It Exist?
Let’s be real. “Balance” is a myth. It’s more like juggling. Some days, work wins. Other days, family does. The key is to be intentional about both.
- Schedule “off” time. Just like work. Family time goes on the calendar. Treat it like a can’t-miss appointment.
- Be present. When you’re with your kids? Be there. Put the phone down.
- Forget perfection. Laundry piles up. Dishes? Unwashed. It’s okay. Let it go.
- Self-care. Not a luxury. A must. Even a few minutes each day.
I remember one crazy week. Big deadline. Sick toddler. Leaky roof. I felt like I was failing at everything.
Then, I stopped. Closed the laptop. Snuggled with my daughter. Watched a silly movie. It wasn’t a miracle cure. But it helped me reset. And remember what matters.
Success Stories and Help
Tons of parents are crushing it in the freelance world. Find online groups. Connect with other writers. Share tips. Celebrate wins. And vent about losses.
- Freelance communities. Facebook groups, Reddit’s r/freelanceWriters, online forums. Support and advice.
- Online courses. Improve your writing. Business skills. Marketing.
- Mentors. Find experienced writers. Get guidance.
- Time-tracking apps. Toggl Track or Clockify. Monitor your time. Find ways to be more efficient.
The Bottom Line
Freelance writing as a parent? It’s not a walk in the park. It takes grit. Determination. And a lot of self-compassion.
But it’s also amazing. You get to do what you love. Help your family. And be there for your kids.
That’s a pretty great combo, right?
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